Okay big problem

Xx blackblood xX wrote:

What can you do if you have left someone you love so much and you finally cut it off..They use and abuse you then you want to go back with them..My problem is I can't stay loyal and neither can he..The question I have is

Am I ready for a relationship??

Am I ready to so stuff and start a family even though I'm only 18??

Do I have time for children even though I want them so badly??



I just don't know about me and this one guy..I mean we love each other with all our hearts and I broke up with him this morning and felt bad cause I want him back..We promised each other everything and I can't figure out anything now not even motivated to do anything..But will he accept me back again??

That is a really hard call to make.

However, the only thing I can say is this.

You need to make time for yourself first. If he's not willing to take you back after the bullshit he's put you through, then it's not worth it. As for children, you don't really have time for that right now. You need to focus on getting a job first and make some money, go to school and get an education. Once you're done with that, maybe then you can find the time to settle down. As I said, you're young and you got a lot of road to travel before you get to where you're wanting to go.

As they say, "In life, there are no shortcuts."

Heed these words, and maybe you got a shot at becoming something more than what you already are.